10 Tips for Transitioning From Relaxed to Natural Hair

10 Tips for Transitioning From Relaxed to Natural Hair

African American girl transitioning to natural hair

Recently, my sister decided that she would transition to natural hair.  She was struggling with breakage and finally said enough is enough.  She also longed for the versatility of natural hair: curls in the summer and blown-out styles in the winter.  So she embarked on her transition. She’s about nine months in and plans to transition for about a year and a half. [I was a short-term transitioner with only a 5 1/2 month transition.]  The challenges she faces during her transition,  brings back memories from when I transitioned  four years ago.

Read Shanutrice’s Hairstory. She transitioned for almost 3 years. You can read it here.


If you are currently transitioning, here 10 tips for transitioning from relaxed to natural hair

1. Finish Your Old Products  – I know. It seems like every blog is pushing every new product that comes out on the market. But before you join the bandwagons and become a product junkie, use up your old product first. Refraining from becoming a product junkie will force you to focus on your hair regimen –which is most important.

SEE ALSO: Why Your Hair Regimen is More Important Than Your Products

2. Introduce New Products One at A Time – As you finish your old products, try introducing new products  when transitioning from relaxed to natural hair one at at time. If you only introduce one new product, you will have a “controlled” experiment. You’ll quickly be able to determine which products are or aren’t’ working for your hair.

3. Pay Special Attention to the Line of Demarcation – The line of demarcation is where your relaxed hair and natural hair meet. Since your hair textures will differ greatly, this will be a weak point in your hair. So take extra care to reduce breakage when transitioning from relaxed to natural hair. Otherwise, you will have some random short hairs during your transition.

SEE ALSO: Transition With Less Breakage

4. Don’t Try to Guess Your Curl Pattern – It’s tempting, but don’t do it. You will not be able to see your true curl pattern until you cut off your relaxed ends, so save yourself from the guessing game. Besides, the natural hair community can be pretty consumed by the concept of curl pattern. Don’t get caught up in that just yet… just enjoy the transition.

5. Deep Condition. Deep Condition. Deep Condition –  And if you have time, deep condition with heat.  Whether your is natural or relaxed, deep conditioning is very important in hair care.  If you want to properly nourish your strands, invest in a conditioner that is specifically labeled as a deep conditioner.  Here’s a list of 5 Best Moisturizing Deep Conditioners


6. Treat Your Hair as Natural Hair – As they say, practice makes perfect. Treat your hair as if all of it was natural. If you plan on wearing your hair in it’s natural state — instead of a straight — then practice your twist outs, braid outs, and bantu knots now. (As you transition, you will need to use rods on your ends to blend the two textures.)

By the time you big chop, you will have mastered these styles. Besides, if you constantly straighten your hair, you run the risk of damaging your kinks and curls. Which will only lengthen the transitioning from relaxed to natural hair.

This site, Natural Hair Rules has tons of natural hairstyle tutorials. You can see them here.

7. Keep Your Scalp Clean – The key to hair growth is a clean and healthy scalp. Remember, how your mom used to grease your scalp with grease? Well, forget that. Unless you want to clog your hair follicle. Since your scalp creates a natural hair sebum, its not necessary.  But if you like to, you can massage your scalp with castor oil or a light oil such as Jojoba Oil, but avoid mineral oil.  Wash your scalp and hair whenever you see buildup, since that buildup will stunt your hair growth.

8. Trim Your Ends – Contrary to popular belief  trimming your ends won’t make your hair grow faster. But it will prevent excessive breakage. This is especially important during the transition. On a regular basis, trim off split ends. Since you don’t plan on keeping the relaxed ends anyway, this is a great opportunity to trim away at those ends.

You can trim as often as every 6 weeks or 3 months until you’re completely natural.

9. Protect Your Hair Strands – Do your best to protect your hair. Don’t over-manipulate your hair. Deep condition. Utilize protective styles — as long as they are not too tight or left in too long. Since your hair is fragile right now, it is especially important to protect it from damage. If your goal is length retention, then you might as well practice now since this is key.

10. You’ll Know When It’s Time to Big Chop – One of the top questions asked is when will you know it’s time to big chop.  Trust me.  You’ll know.  You will reach a point when you’re tired of dealing with two textures.  Or you will be anxious to see your natural hair in all it’s glory.

On the spur of the moment, I called my hair stylist when I was leaving work.  She squeezed me in and chopped it off. I never looked back.

So there you have it… the ten best tips for transitioners!

More Tips for Transitioning To Natural Hair

Do you have any additional tips for transitioners?



7 thoughts on “10 Tips for Transitioning From Relaxed to Natural Hair

  1. Rashonda

    These are great tips! Another thing I would suggest is to get the Nutress Transitioning kit! This kit is really the best thing that works for my transitioning hair. One thing that I love about this brand is
    that they don’t make exaggerated claims and their products speak for themselves. Their formulas are effective but very gentle, which is perfect for Natural hair. Their protein treatment is also perfect for transitioners. It works wonders for my hair!

  2. Pingback: The Stressors and Triumphs of Life’s Transitions – CC Speaks

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s